>>64103026>I am at times, not always. But I think that's normal. I don't think anyone is happy 24/7.
Good point. I don't think anyone is happy 24/7, either. I suppose a better way to pose my question would be to ask if you're happy with your relationships. And to then ask if you think you'd be happier and more satisfied if you were less confrontational and argumentative. If you listened more to their perspective. But I'm not really saying anything meaningful here since that could apply to anyone, most of all me. Wouldn't it be better if everyone were less judgmental and were more understanding and compassionate instead? Do you think that's an overly idealistic view? An impractical one?>I'm hard on myself much harder than on anyone else. You might think I'm hard on others, you don't know hard I am on myself.
I'll take your word on it. Most people are their own worst critic and their self-talk is very abusive/judgmental/harmful. I guess it doesn't help matters that other people end up adding to it with their additional judgments. I should keep that in mind since I'm one of the worst culprits.>I also push others away too much and hide behind my social anxiety
I didn't know you had social anxiety. That's surprising to me since you seem very assertive with your beliefs. I wouldn't have guessed at all.>How are you?
Being hypocritical and full of shit, as always. Criticizing people for things I do more often than them while being blind to it. Being an ass to people and then apologizing afterward, only to end up doing it again later. So the same as always.
How did things go with your guy? I've been curious to know if you've had luck with him or not. >>64103179>uses his 'empathy' to help you
I never claimed to have much empathy, nor have I ever helped anyone here.>>64103331
She doesn't let others define her value. Don't make assumptions about people you know nothing about. You can't determine such a thing based on a few posts in here, so keep that in mind.