Sorry I didn't sugarcoat it and make the entire post heart shaped for you. This boards a cesspit, with at least 5 constant threads about how women are vain and shitty, but still bitching about how they wont fuck them.
I'm being realistic.>>65456946
Good personalities come in all shapes and sizes. Some girls like serious stoic, some more feminine, others want specific interests/hobbies in common.
When people say "be yourself" they assume that you have things you do, and have something interesting going on (no matter how stupid it is), that you would like to share and talk about.
Universal traits are confident, funny, and having a backbone. Just having those and nothing else is enough to make up for a lot of negative traits (if you ever wondered how ugly/fat/abusive guys get girls, this is how).